Dear Shazaad
This letter is written in the hope that it a guide rather than an admonishment of any sort, and comes with an insight only gleaned by having survived the turmoil and joys of youth. I realise of course that one needs to go through the follies of exuberant youth to fully appreciate the consequences that follow the actions. Having said that I hope this letter will serve as means to aid you on this difficult journey, making your road as smooth as possible.
Shazaad I suppose I must first tell you that friends are like water, they will slip through your fingers, meaning they come and go. This is a pivotal fact you must accept as with it comes most of the disappointments of youth. I am in no way suggesting that you neglect this vital part of life, but rather trying to tell you that you should place only the necessary emphasis on the subject of friends. Remember that all people will look out first and foremost for themselves, and so should you. This may seem selfish, but it is human nature and you will fare well to remember this.
Friends have amazing powers of persuasion, parents only wish they could have half the influence. Know your real friends, and sift out the rubbish early. Yes, you will experiment with all sorts of vices, but know that experimentation and dependence is a very thin line, so exercise caution. Trust in yourself, only you know your true limits and stick to your principles.
Sex, is a beautiful act between two people. Let no one tell you otherwise. Your body is your greatest asset, enjoy it. Do not abuse it! Let sex become something you relish, rather than something wasted and tarnished. You understand fully what I am saying in this regard so there is little need for elaboration.
Lastly Shazaad, put your faith in your parents. If you feel lonely and depressed or that the world is becoming too much, close your eyes and think of them, and you will cross all hurdles and victory will be yours.
Sincerely
you
Friday, September 26, 2008
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Shazaad, your letter to your younger self was beautiful. You didn't waste any time being frivolous and enforced your superior knowledge of such issues, almost as though you knew your younger self would respond favourably to this. I particularly related to the fact that you refer to issues your younger self is already aware of, implying that even though you may have changed since attending Rhodes you still uphold your sense of values. I greatly admire the manner in which you gave sound, helpful advice and trusting your younger self to make the right choices. This, to me, proves that people do have an innate sense of identity and i thank you for helping me to see it.
Dr Kinky, I thank you for the words. i understand that these are issue very real to most of us, and mistakes will often be apart of life experience. This only makes one stronger in their resolve and true inner peace only comes with the knowledge that one can pass on learnt wisdom to others.
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